Because He lives, She is alive!

Tonight I try to fight back my tears, but my heart is hurting in a way it's never quite hurt before. It's strange to be overwhelmed with sadness but be so filled with excitement at the same time. The selfish Ashton, wishes Gram was here with me tonight. I wish she'd have been at her house tonight having dinner with us, and going through old pictures, laughing hysterically. I wish I could hear her talk and watch her smile. I wish I could hold her hand one more time, and let her kiss me goodnight. But then just when I start to feel overwhelmed by how much I feel I need her here, I can't help but smile. Tonight, Gram is with Jesus. Tonight, she is seeing the most beautiful things she has ever laid her eyes on. She's singing her heart out in worship this Easter Sunday, and I know for certain she is dancing. She is reuniting with my Gramps, 17 years without her love. What a reunion that must've been! She is meeting Mary, Paul, James, John, Peter. She's kissing Jesus' feet, and holding His hand. She is seeing her momma and daddy, and her sister and brother. The sounds she is hearing are majestic, indescribable. Her body is whole, healthy, cancer free. She isn't weak anymore, she isn't sick, she isn't tired, or frail. She is ALIVE.

That's why I am okay tonight, even though I will miss her every second that is to come for the rest of my life- I am comforted knowing that because Jesus died and rose again, today my grammy lives again too. I thank Jesus for such a special blessing and reminder of what He came and did so that we might live. Easter is the day that represents LIFE, and that is exactly what my Grammy got today.


She is alive again, because HE LIVES.


"Precious in the sight of God are the death of His saints." : Psalm 116:17

My hero. My angel. My grammy.

Tonight I'm thankful for a lot of things. Thankful for salvation. grace. a home that's always welcoming. a cozy bed. food anytime i want. clean water. clothes and more clothes. shoes so my feet don't hurt. a church family that's so special to me. a big brother that never fails to make me laugh. parents that so often teach me what love really is. And literally I could go on for hours and still not have said it all...

But tonight this is what I'm most thankful for: My best friend, Madison, who always knows the right things to say when I'm trying so hard to stay strong. My precious boyfriend who lets me cry and cry and cry and keep crying on the phone. The moments I can be alone to gather myself. But mostly for the memories. The sweet, sweet memories that I have of my Grammy being healthy. That's what I try so hard to cling to lately, the good times. Like the times when she'd walk over to our house and take us on in a game of basketball and kick our tails (she was a baller in her day.) Or when she'd make us fetch a switch to get spanked with from the back yard...okay those weren't such good ones! ha! Or when she'd bring us out some cokes when we were playing wiffle ball in her back yard. And can't forget all the summer nights with homemade icecream. Or the times when she would sit and tell us about our Gramps who we have too little memories of. Or the times she'd be out on the back porch and say hello across the yard. Or the mornings I'd be leaving and she'd raise her window to greet me. And there was this one time a snake was her house, brother and I climbed the sink and she was so angry at us....until she saw the snake too! haha and The time her and gramps bought us a puppy and we were absolutely terrified. Then there's the time my dog died, and she cradled little heart broken me cause mom and dad were gone. Oh but the best memories are all the Sunday lunches, yummy! how I'm gonna miss her fried chicken and mashed potatoes. And never can we forget the holidays, sitting around for hours upon hours together as a family reminiscing. Birthdays ahh,  she never failed to cook each of us our very favorite dishes and desserts. She is such a giver. Always, serving. She is always the last one to sit down to eat, and the first up to clean up our messes. Even after we found out she was sick she still worries about us, and everyone else for that matter. "Are you all to hot in here?, Would you like something to drink?, Are you Hungry?" and so on.

Grammy is my hero. This week especially I've began recognizing the impact she has made on not just my life, but lots of peoples lives. Some that I know, some that are strangers. Yet this week God has given me such a special gift of running into people who ask about her, and never fail to tell me what a special place she has in their hearts because of who she is as a person, as a servant of Jesus, and as a fighter. Even in these last few days that she has here she is still teaching me more and more of who Jesus is. I try to remember her for who she has always been, and still is- even behind that sick body- She is a lover of the Most High. She is a fighter. She is faithful to Him even amongst the most difficult trials she has been given. She takes each with such dignity, never complaining- always praising. She is my hero. I hope I grow into half of the woman she has been and continues to be. She is my angel, and tonight I am so thankful for the (almost) 21 years God allowed me to have her. I don't want to remember the sick Grammy, or the weak Gram, or the tired Gram. I choose to remember the Gram she's been up until the past month, but I look so forward to the Grammy I will see again in heaven. My Gram with a perfect, healthy, cancer-free body, that's been face to face with Jesus and radiates His presence.

My heart is so sad tonight, but when I think of her FINALLY standing before Jesus...which she has been waiting so patiently for, I get chills. That's all she wants now is to see her sweet Savior, and I'd be so selfish to try to hold her here any longer. So tonight, I'll kiss her sweet face, hope for a few more kisses to come. I'll cling to the precious memories she has given me and smile knowing soon she will finally be HOME.

Let's Go Exploring

This week in one of my quiet times with the Lord, He said this to me: "explore your passions, and find opportunities to serve them."

So today, that's my short and sweet words of encouragement to you. Figure out what your God given passions are, whether that be: the nations, people, music, kids, art, fashion, traveling, speaking, teaching, etc.- and find ways to serve those passions.

It was such a sweet reminder to me that God has created me with a specific design, including specific passions and He desires for me to go head first into serving those areas in my life. I truly believe He wants to remind you of that very thing today too.

He's been so faithful this week in not only revealing my passions that were unseen, and also opening doors to serve both those I knew and have just come to know. Praise Him.

Today, right now. . . explore your passions, and serve them.

The rescue.

Your grace is sufficient for me O Lord.

I could never pay off my debt. It's too big, too great, too endless.
All other religions in this world are striving to ear their way into heaven with hopes that, "I've been good enough."

NEWS FLASH: our sin debt is too monstrous to ever be good enough- Even if I awake every morning with the intent to earn salvation, seeking to do everything good I could find to do.

What happens when...I get angry, or tell a little fib, or ignore someone who needs my help, or how about when I just once don't do what my boss has ask my to do, or what if I take something that doesn't belong to me, or don't follow the speed limit, or run a stop sign, or judge a friend. What if?  My debt just increases more and more. No matter what I do to pay it off, my very selfishness and even sometimes my own habits only add more to it, therefore adding what I've worked so hard to take away.

I will NEVER pay it off my sin debt. I will NEVER earn my way to heaven. I will NEVER be good enough.

BUT JESUS WILL.

And that my friends is exactly why He came. He knew/knows we can't erase, defeat, or pay back our debt. He knows we are trapped, chained, enslaved to our sin. He came for a rescue like no other. He brought His grace. The grace that absolutely swarms our very being- the grace that says, "I erase your debt. I let you walk free. I rescue you today." No more working for love. It's yours. All yours, as much as your want and need for the rest of your life.

But there's one catch- Jesus. Do you believe He's real? Do you believe He came to rescue YOU? Do you believe He's perfect in every way, righteous, and holy? Do you believe He wants His very blood to make you those things too?  It's true. He is the way. He is the truth. He is life, and life abundant. And He is here to rescue YOU!

I think of my sweet friends across the world- in debt ed to the brothels of India. So engulfed by what they owe they shall never escape the chains of sex trafficking, they have no hope. They will never see life outside of the district because their debt is too great to pay back. BUT if someone came and said to them, "Walk free today. Your debts are ALL taken care of. You don't have to live in chains any longer. I've come to rescue you. And give you life everlasting." Not one of my friends would dare say, "No thank you, not today."

Because they know the torment they face everyday. They know they are lost and invisible without a rescuer. They know they need a savior of some kind because...They recognize how great their debt is, they see how much they owe.

That is the difference in my friends in India and my friends here at home. Those in India see how magnificent the amounts of money they owe the brothels and the madam. They see that there is no way in all of eternity that they can work to pay it off. 40 men a night won't be enough, nor 50 or 60 men. It is hopeless, their debt is too great. And it only increases, never decreases. They need a savior. My friends here that are lost, and enslaved to their sin...they need one too. They just have a harder time recognizing their need.

Before you will ever realize you need a Savior, you must first recognize how great your debt is. And i pray not one person reading this walks away from the grace of Jesus today.

It is FREE, and I promise you this...

IT IS MORE THAN ENOUGH TO COVER WHAT YOU OWE.


"...But where sin increased, grace increased all the more." :Romans 5:20


"It is by grace you have been saved, through faith- and this is not from yourselves, it is a gift of God." :Ephesians 2:8

a picture is worth a 1000 words

We sincerely thank you for your prayers for this trip. Because of your obedience to lifting us up, we now have 9 new brothers and sisters in Christ. May His name be ringing loud today! I hope you will continue to lift up our beautiful friends in Kenya who just committed to living a life that honors Christ, and also for my friend P in India. They will encounter hardship, so pray they remain confident in their creator, and that God would use them to change their nations.

she said yes

I love love. A good love story always makes my heart smile. Happily ever afters get me every time. And while I was in India this time, I saw one of the greatest love stories ever told with my very own eyes.

She said yes...

Just two weeks ago you could have found me on the streets of Mumbai, but not just any streets- the streets of the red light district. Also known as one of the darkest places on the face of the earth. It's where evil roams and slumbers day in and day out. Only this trip to the district turned into one with quite an unusual ending.

Myself, and two other friends of mine journeyed up the stairs of a brothel. Turning the corner of the first flight we encountered about 6 women sitting, standing, waiting on customers. I smiled...they did not. We walked in line passed them, with a man following closely behind us. Only we were on much of a different mission than he. With every flight of stairs came a long hall way, maybe 10 or more rooms down each hall and a man, or young adult, sitting on a stool waiting outside the doorway. After about 4 flights up, we ventured down the long hallway, stopping at probably the 5Th doorway. We walked in...two women were there to greet us with hellos, and also a big fat rat. That alone had me on my toes, itching to get out of the place. Yet we walked on into the brothel, and had a seat in the front room with the women and the rat too of course.

After a few moments, a baby's cry screeched throughout the brothel, and of course i asked the women if we could please see the baby. So one went into the back room and woke up the baby's mother and she and her sweet 1 year old came out to see us. For now we will just call him baby M, for security purposes, and baby M was no fan of mine to say the least. One look at a strange white girl and he was in a frenzy. But don't worry just yet, the story gets much better. So baby M's momma came and sat down, we'll call her P. P's name and outfit went perfectly together, as did her bright red lips and make-uped face left over from the night before. I could feel my chest grow tighter at the thoughts of what the previous night had held for her, just 5 mins walking distance away from where I had laid my head in safety. I kept telling myself, "focus, don't let Satan win. Pay attention to details and engage like you've never engaged before."

P began opening us as I asked her more and more questions. Where had she come from? How long had she been here? What was her age? Where was her family? Why, why this? And here is her story: After finding she was pregnant with her 8 year old daughter, her husband left her. So when her daughter was 5, she started seeking a better job in order to support her. She was told of a job opportunity in Mumbai where she could be a tailor, and knew that was the best she would probably find. LIES. IT WAS ALL LIES. My sweet friend, P, had been trafficked. SOLD. IN DEBTED to a brothel and to a madam. TRAPPED. DECEIVED. So P has been in the trade for 3 years, and still her mother and daughter know nothing of the truth of what she is really doing. She is too ashamed and broken to tell them. Now she has a baby boy to care for also, and in a month she will be sending him to her mother to care for also. I asked her if she is sad to be sending him away, but she told me she is okay because she knows he needs out of there, he needs a better life. I shared with her how much I respected her for that, and explained that that demonstrated a beautiful picture of what love really is. Giving up of ourselves for the benefit of someone else.

This opened the door to share about Jesus. I asked her if she knew of Him, and she told me, "yes, He is like the other gods i worship." but thankfully she told me she would love to know more about him, stories of his love. Somewhere in the midst of this conversation unfolding, a man walked into the brothel. Looked at me, looked at my friend (also a white American girl), and asked Chris (our leader and Indian) how much for both of us. Yes, that's right...He wanted to buy us for the day or night. Thankfully Chris told control and told him to leave. So after that small incident i proceeded in sharing Jesus with P, praying with every breath for the the Holy Spirit to be there. At the end, i asked her- the question that saved her life.

Would she like to receive the ONE man who will never leave her, the one who keeps EVERY promise He ever makes, the one who loves her more than any other, and she said YES! Right there in the midst of that dark, sinful, disgusting brothel- Jesus showed up and saved P. Once a lonely prostitute, now a princess of the King. Once broken, now mended. Once hopeless, now full of hope. Once a instrument of lust, now the apple of someones eye, HIS eye. Once lost, now she is found. All because He came, died, and lives again. He did it for P. All because He loves the unlovable, fights for the weak, cries out for the ones who can't even speak. And all because...

SHE SAID YES.

treasures in heaven.

I had intended to go to my bathroom (the perfect place for quiet prayer sessions) and "vent" to God about how poor I am, how i just withdrew from college for. . .the second time in 3 years, how i make minimum wage working at a daycare and spend my days with sometimes cute but more often than not bratty 8 year olds, and so on. let's just say, he got a hold of me real quick, and as you read this prayer I wrote, you'll see how in just a few short lines He can take my anger, frustration, feelings of failure, and anxiety and send me a little smack in the face and bring me back to the reality- a kingdom perspective. Man oh man, is He good or what!



"I have $80 in my wallet. 80. I don't get paid for over a month and a half. $80. That's it. I'm not in college, I make $7.40 an hour when i do work- which is like NEVER....I'm a poor college drop out yet again, with no clue of what the future holds. . .(side note: this is when it gets good). . .
However, you knew I'd be here ages before my mother even knew me. You knew the stress I'd face, the worry I'd feel. And you also knew and know that I'm going to be just fine. Mom will still put food on the table for me to eat, and dad will still lend me money when my gas tank is on E. And you'll keep blessing me with the sweetest, most beautiful brown faces I've ever known. You'll use the people of India to pour enough love on me to fill up my tank, the only tank that truly matters. You'll use the hungry babies in Kenya to remind me that even in "my poor" state, it doesn't come close to the poverty they live under. My belly will never grow hungry, yet 16000 children will die daily from hunger related issues. My old, wearing down BMW will still be worth more than they have or could even imagine of owning. I'll still have a job making (in one hour) more than most Indians make in an entire day. You remind me that no, I am not poor. I am not in need- Even when America's standards say $80 is nothing, the rest of the world tells me $80 is rich. And though i get overwhelmed quite often by my diminishing bank account, You remind me that You are truly all i need. You'll take care of the rest. You tell me not to worry about the time away from work to be in India, or Kenya, or wherever else I may end up- but that the ONLY thing I am to be concerned with is that these people receive the ONLY thing that will keep them from being poor, poor in spirit. . .YOU- Jesus Christ, the Savior of my soul and of theirs, the Provider, the Great I Am, for

YOU ARE ENOUGH. YOU ARE ALL WE NEED!"

Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart is also. :Matthew 6:19-21